{"id":22502,"date":"2018-09-05T20:15:38","date_gmt":"2018-09-05T20:15:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pre-production.taftcollege.edu\/safety\/?p=22502"},"modified":"2018-09-27T18:25:31","modified_gmt":"2018-09-27T18:25:31","slug":"dating-violence-and-domestic-violence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.taftcollege.edu\/safety\/blog\/2018\/09\/05\/dating-violence-and-domestic-violence\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating Violence and Domestic Violence"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 class=\"page-header\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-22539 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/archive.taftcollege.edu\/safety\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/62\/2018\/09\/Domestic-Violence-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/archive.taftcollege.edu\/safety\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/62\/2018\/09\/Domestic-Violence-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/archive.taftcollege.edu\/safety\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/62\/2018\/09\/Domestic-Violence-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/archive.taftcollege.edu\/safety\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/62\/2018\/09\/Domestic-Violence-700x525.jpg 700w, https:\/\/archive.taftcollege.edu\/safety\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/62\/2018\/09\/Domestic-Violence.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>What is Dating Violence or Domestic Violence?<\/h1>\n<div class=\"region region-content\">\n<div id=\"block-system-main\" class=\"block block-system clearfix\">\n<article id=\"node-9\" class=\"node node-page clearfix\">\n<div class=\"field field-name-body field-type-text-with-summary field-label-hidden\">\n<div class=\"field-items\">\n<div class=\"field-item even\">\n<p>Dating\/Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behaviors used to exert power and control over a partner. Dating\/Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, injure or wound someone. Dating\/Domestic violence can happen to anyone regardless of race, sexual orientation, social economics, education, age, religion, etc. Dating\/Domestic violence can also affect family, friends, co-workers and members in the community, in addition to the victim and abuser. Domestic violence can occur regardless of the relationship status, including individuals who are dating, cohabitating, or married.<\/p>\n<h3>Types of Dating\/Domestic Violence That Includes Sexual Misconduct<\/h3>\n<p>There usually is a pattern or a repeated cycle of dating violence, starting with the first instance of abuse.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>General Pattern of Behavior:<\/strong><\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Tension Building:<\/strong> Relationship begins to get strained or tense between partners.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Explosion:<\/strong> Outburst that includes verbal, emotional, or physical abuse.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Honeymoon:<\/strong> Apologies where the abuser tries to re-connect with his\/her partner by shifting the blame onto someone or something else.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Definitions of What Dating\/Domestic Violence Looks Like<\/h3>\n<h4><strong>Any actions used for the intent of gaining power and control over a person:<\/strong><\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Physical Abuse:<\/strong> any intentional use of physical force with the intent to cause injury (i.e. grabbing in a way to inflict pain, hitting, shoving, strangling, kicking)<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emotional Abuse:<\/strong>\u00a0 non-physical behaviors such as threats, insults, constant monitoring, humiliation, intimidation, isolation, silent treatment, or stalking<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sexual Abuse:<\/strong>\u00a0 any action that impacts the partner\u2019s ability to control their sexual activity or the circumstance which sexual activity occurs, including rape, coercion or restricting access to birth control<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Warnings or Signs of Potential Dating\/Domestic ViolenceAsk yourself if your partner engages in one or any of the following activities:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Checks my cell phone or email without my permission.<\/li>\n<li>Monitors where I\u2019m going, who I\u2019m going with, what I\u2019m doing.<\/li>\n<li>Repeatedly says or does things to make me feel inadequate or inferior to him\/her.<\/li>\n<li>Extreme jealously or insecurity.<\/li>\n<li>Isolates me from my friends and family.<\/li>\n<li>Explosive temper.<\/li>\n<li>Mood swings.<\/li>\n<li>Assumes financial control over my access to financial resources.<\/li>\n<li>Tells me what to do.<\/li>\n<li>Possessiveness.<\/li>\n<li>Physically hurts me in any way.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<p>If you or someone you know is a victim of dating violence or domestic violence, contact the Campus Safety Office at 661-763-7872 or <a href=\"http:\/\/kernalliance.org\/\">The Alliance Against Family Violence &amp; Sexual Assault\u00a0<\/a>at <a href=\"http:\/\/kernalliance.org\">kernalliance.org<\/a> or 661-322-0931.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is Dating Violence or Domestic Violence?              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